Misfortunes can sometimes be a blessing in disguise. In Shakespeare’s As You Like It, the exiled duke in he forest of Arden finds he has much to be thankful for.
Sweet are the uses of adversity,
Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in his head;
And this our life exempt from public haunt
Finds tongues in trees, books in the running brooks,
Sermons in stones and good in everything.
I would not change it.